40 Days of Discipline

40 Days of Discipline: Day 38 – Passion Week

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1It was just before the Passover Festival. Jesus knew that the hour had come for him to leave this world and go to the Father. Having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end.  The evening meal was in progress, and the devil had already prompted Judas, the son of Simon Iscariot, to betray Jesus. Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power, and that he had come from God and was returning to God; so he got up from the meal, took off his outer clothing, and wrapped a towel around his waist. After that, he poured water into a basin and began to wash his disciples’ feet, drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him…12 When he had finished washing their feet, he put on his clothes and returned to his place. “Do you understand what I have done for you?” he asked them. 13 “You call me ‘Teacher’ and ‘Lord,’ and rightly so, for that is what I am. 14 Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet. 15 I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you. 16 Very truly I tell you, no servant is greater than his master, nor is a messenger greater than the one who sent him. 17 Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them. (John 13:1 -5 and 12 – 17, New International Version)

Theme:  The Wisdom of Discipline

Context:

During Passion Week we are using objects in Scripture to preserve our memory of some of the key lessons about love that Jesus taught His disciples during Passion Week.  So far we have focused on tears, overturned tables, and perfume. Today, we focus on a basin of water.   The passage above from the Gospel of John captures the story of Jesus washing the feet of His disciples.

Reflection:

The very first verse of the passage lets us know that what is to follow is about love. Usually, when reference is made to this love story about Jesus washing the feet of His disciples, the towel is the symbolic object.  As a symbolic reminder, I think the basin of water is also worthy of consideration.  Jesus was explicit about the reason why He washed the disciples’ feet.  He gave the disciples a model of servant leadership that they were to follow.   The basin of water helps to illustrate this model because it is a reminder that while feet washing can be a messy undertaking, Jesus did it anyway.  Throughout His ministry, Jesus loved when the situation was “messy.”  For example, He was not afraid of lovingly communicating with a Samaritan woman, even though such an act was taboo.  He lovingly defended a woman who was about to be stoned for adultery.  And, Jesus showed love to a tax collector by eating with him at his home even though tax collectors were despised by many. 

We are tempted to love only when it is convenient.  If the situation gets messy it’s time to look for an exit.  I once heard a theologian say that Christians often express their love for ministry until the reality hits home that their ministry is to people with all their flaws.  The basin with water reminds us how Jesus loves and how He has asks us to love.    

Response:

If we are to lead effectively as Christians, we must love even when it is messy.  The “dirty water” of people’s lives should not cause us to stop loving them?  What inspires you to keep loving even in unpleasant circumstances?  I would love to hear your thoughts.

7 thoughts on “40 Days of Discipline: Day 38 – Passion Week

  1. This is a wonderful, inspiring and challenging story. This act by Jesus is such a powerful illustration of His love, and reminds of how I must try to love in the same way. His sacrifice, illustrated by the Cross, inspires me to love others. I am a sinner and fall short and yet He still loves me. His perfect life of Agape love inspires me daily.

  2. Matthew 25-40 says Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me. The impenetrable love Christ gave me is a constant motivator in many situations. I’m always able to put myself in the place of someone’s situation and think about how I’d like to be treated had it been me.
    I crave God’s blessings on my life: Proverbs 11:25 “The one who blesses others is abundantly blessed; those who help others are helped”.

  3. Loving in messy situations is hard. I don’t know at times how I even achieve it. It’s a heart change for me. I know it’s the power of the Holy Spirit working within me that inspires me to love in messy situations. My human tendencies and personality is to disengage and walk away.

    I am grateful that when I am the messy situation God continues to surround me with people who are inspired to love me through it.

  4. “Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart.”
    ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭3‬:‭3‬ ‭NIV‬‬

    Love and kindness are important character qualities. Both involve actions as well as attitudes. A loving person not only feels love; he or she also acts loyally and responsibly.

    I think thoughts and words are not enough- our lives reveal whether we are truly loving and kind. It’s only through God’s grace that we can truly love others especially the ones who can be difficult to love. I also believe that by humbly accepting that I am a sinner and was saved through God’s love, that I will be able to also accept and love others, I may falter and disappoint God at times but I just have to keep coming back to Him and start all over again. I guess, my determination and resolve to always remind myself that loving the person and hating the sin allows me to love those who are in messy situations. It’s hard to love the unlovable but my God loves me and accepts me with all my flaws, and with that I am encouraged to do what God commanded me to do, LOVE one another.

  5. Loving in messy situations is certainly challenging, to truly love the unlovable, persons who say they are Christians but their actions show otherwise. How to love cruel persons such as a pedophile or someone who purposely neglects a critically ill parent eg lack of medical care, enough food, clean pull ups. How to also interpret 1Corinthians 5:11 ‘But I now have written unto you not to keep company with any man who is called a brother if he is a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner. With such a one you are not even to eat’. Does love mean being in contact with such persons, or as above to keep away from them?

    • The situations you share are truly challenging, Toni. I don’t believe there can be any blanket prescription for how love should be dispensed in challenging situations like the ones you cite. The guidance of the Holy Spirit, including possibly through trusted advisors is certainly warranted. Certainly though, in many circumstances love does not mean contact. I know that Jesus loved Peter when he said “get behind me Satan.” So, I know that love is not always “welcoming.” In fact, I believe sometimes love may mean nothing more than a sincere prayer to change our hearts, change our circumstances, and to change a “difficult” person. I find that the challenging part is to align my heart with God’s directions.

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